Be Your Own Kind of Beautiful-Revisted

img_7300Over the years, I’ve blogged about being true to yourself in regards to beauty. You should be living your own truth and doing what works for YOU. The beauty industry is really changing and growing, and there are tons of products out here to enhance your beauty. Trust me,  I work my way methodically through many of them. It’s a tough job, but I’m always ready to step up to the mirror on behalf of my beauty mavens out there. As much as I love to play around with new makeup, try out the latest serums and masks, and just have a good time making my clients look their absolute best, the best kind of “beautiful” for me is knowledge.  

This summer, I spent some time at the Brooklyn Museum, where I literally stumbled and paused in front of Mickalene Thomas’ “A Little Taste Outside of Love.”  This huge acrylic, enamel and rhinestone portrait of an unabashedly black woman was MY kind of beautiful. On that hot, humid day in Brooklyn, I looked at an image of a woman who was straight up chillin’ and enjoying HER kind of beautiful. I saw my own dark brown-reddish skin and the round parts of my body in her body. On most days, I don’t need validation that I’m beautiful in my own skin, but it’s hard work to stay positive about ME in a world that doesn’t see my kind of pretty as special or even relevant. Yet, that day, MY kind of beautiful was all around me. #BlackGirlMagic


Make Blotting Papers Your Friend

“I love my super-slick, greasy, oily skin that makes my makeup slide right off,” no one has ever said. Although it’s tempting to touch up those oily spots with your powder compact, it’s never a good idea. For starters, your puff or sponge will absorb the oil and trap it, which makes that puff or sponge a breeding ground for bacteria. Skin naturally produces oil, but if you find yourself a bit more oily, invest in some blotting papers. These extremely thin, square-shaped, lightweight miracles live in all of my purses and makeup cases.

In my opinion, the best papers are ones that absorb oil without leaving a powdery coating on my skin. I prefer the Sephora brand, along with Mary Kay (these are larger than the average papers), Boscia, and in a pinch, the Walgreens brand works too! Higher end cosmetic brand Shiseido makes a blotting paper that absorbs sweat along with oil, and that is definitely a win-win situation.

Even though the summer is coming to an end, and many of us equate sweaty, oily skin with heat, blotting papers are a good idea year round.

Until next time,

Rewards Programs (Take Advantage)

Happy Saturday! I’ve been productive this morning by taking care of some grooming issues (like banning those evil facial hairs who seem to have a mind of their own), and organizing my treasure trove of miscellaneous beauty items. I stumbled upon one of the many Sephora Beauty Insider gifts that I have stockpiled, including the Caviar Anti-Aging Hair Care products. 

I haven’t used it yet. I have good intentions of using these products, since I love anything that says “Anti-Aging” and the fact that the shampoo and conditioner boast of being free of parabens, sulfates, phthalates, and synthetic color. The trial sized kit also comes with a heat protectant spray (of which I won’t use, as I wear locs, and don’t blow dry), and a leave-in conditioner. 

Since I’ve been a member of Sephora’s rewards program (and several others), I have been hoarding points and turning them in for some cool beauty products. I’ve even become a fan of some companies (Fresh) after trying out the trial sizes that I earned through spending my cash. 

I just love getting something back for patronizing a business. If you’re a beauty budget babe (or dude), and you haven’t utilized rewards programs, what’s stopping you? 

Until next time,


So You Want Good Skin?

My “tip for the day” is a message that I post on my Makeup Artistry by Tiffany page on Facebook. Today’s brief tip was about how makeup is not the enemy in terms of clear skin. The problem that I see with most people is that they are not cleaning their skin before going to bed. People blame the cosmetics for breakouts (and in some instances, with sensitive skin, the products ARE to blame), but they don’t realize that sleeping in makeup is really the cause. Speaking of sleep, if you aren’t getting a well rested night of sleep on a regular basis, your skin will tell on you!Purple Makeup Prince Shirt

Developing good habits over time will decrease skin problems. Aside from removing makeup properly, one must also keep their cosmetic tools clean too. Using dirty sponges and brushes on clean skin is like washing dishes in dirty water. Sounds gross? Well, it is gross to use dirty tools on your skin, especially if you are sharing those products or using them on other people. Transferring bacteria from your skin to your tools and products is dangerous will send you running to the dermatologist or even an emergency room.

Eating healthfully will do wonders for your skin. You can buy all the luxurious products being marketed to help your skin, but if you’re not investing in a better diet, your money will be spent in vain. I am not a nutrition expert, but I do know from consulting with doctors and skin care experts that people MUST eat fresh fruits, vegetables, grains, and proteins in order to provide their skin with the proper nutrients. Swapping out sugary drinks, caffeine, and alcohol for water will help keep your skin looking fresh too.

Lastly, managing stress in your life will help you keep your skin looking great. Eliminating relationships with people who get on your nerves, getting yourself organized at work and home, and using exercise as a well to combat stress are all ways to keep skin issues to a minimum. You can’t be your best, inside and out, if you can’t manage your life in a way that is not stressful.  Learning how to let go and only deal with the issues you can handle is hard for most of us to do, but it must happen. When my skin is looking dull, and I see darkness under my eye area, I know it means I need to reassess what’s going on in my life and start making changes.  Make sure to take better care of yourself. Your skin will thank you.

Until next time,




Put a Stamp on Your Work

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My friend from college is dealing with someone stealing her online pictures and using Made up with MAC Skinfinishthem. This is appalling on many levels.  As a makeup artist and educator, I’ve seen and heard about these internet, bootleg, wannabe makeup artist THIEVES misrepresenting themselves to attract clients. These people have no integrity and think it’s okay to post stolen pictures of work they did not do. Their covers are blown when the clients show up to receive professional makeovers but wind up looking like a science experiment gone wrong. Imitation is supposedly the most sincerest form of flattery, but flat-out stealing someone’s work and passing off as your own is despicable.

Put a stamp on your work by using a watermark, a trademark or copyright symbol, or even a signature to help keep people from misrepresenting your work. Nothing is foolproof but it’s best to mark your pictures in some shape, form, or fashion. When one has spent Suspiria and Across The Universe Nailscountless hours learning the art of makeup application and has dedicated their time to the craft, it is frustrating for someone to come along and claim what is not rightfully theirs.

Until next time,

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Beauty Influencers

Please know and understand that there is a HUGE difference between someone reviewing a product and sharing their opinion versus someone who is being PAID to say nice things about a product. I am specifically referring to beauty influencers on social media who purport to be makeup artists but are really just getting paid to apply makeup from cosmetic brands. I’m totally okay with actors being paid to showcase products, but I think it’s dishonest to pretend that one would sell their first-born child to own (insert cosmetic item here) because it works SO well, when that person has been hired to tout said product.

Pay attention when someone on IG or YT says they are just reviewing a product for the hell of it, because they may be receiving compensation to make those claims. I won’t even go into the legal ramifications that could come into play. Obviously, people buy many cosmetic products based on reviews, but just know that some of your favorite social media beauty influencers are working for a brand, and they need to make that brand sound good enough for you to spend your hard-earned bucks.

Until next time,


What Is Beauty?

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When I discuss beauty on my blog, I am usually talking about some sort of cosmetic/health related topic that we can connect with what make makes us look or feel beautiful.  Physical beauty is only skin deep and is only one facet of a person’s makeup (no pun intended).  Surely, most people want to enhance their natural beauty or at the very least, maintain and preserve their looks. So we spend money on products that promise to make us “better” in some way. We follow trends (some of them harmful), watch YT and IG “influencers” (folks on social media who are paid to promote cosmetic brands), and practice the latest diet fads that promote miraculous feats (“make your cellulite disappear”). People spend hours discussing and practicing how to create the perfect smokey eye, cut crease, contour, and highlight, as if somehow mastering these techniques will elevate them to “beauty.”  We pick, poke, and prod at our skin and our friends and those we cannot stand, trying to discover what’s “wrong” with their “beauty” as if they needed fixing in the first place.

What’s wrong? Everyone has their own definition of “beauty” yet people spend an inordinate amount of time dissecting others personal standards of beauty instead of critiquing themselves.  Simply put: worry about yourself.  Take care of YOUR skin and YOUR body. Buy and use products that YOU like. Strive to be a better human being because THAT is beautiful. Being happy in your own skin is beautiful. Having love in your life and in your heart is beautiful. Appreciating every day that you are here and not dead is beautiful. Having a job you hate that still pays your bills is beautiful. When you laugh from deep within and your face shows your happiness, you are beautiful.  I challenge you to define what beauty means for YOU and rock with that in YOUR life.

Until next time,


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